Tuesday, December 9, 2008

It's over

The ultrasound today showed a baby that had stopped growing at about 8 - 8.5 weeks. There was no longer a heartbeat. So, now we have to talk to the doctor and figure out whether or not I wait to miscarry or go in for another D & C. We have no idea where to go from here.

19 comments:

Kristen and Kiko said...

Sweetheart...I am thinking of you. Ifyou need someone to talk to, let me know. I'm so sorry!!

morris7024 said...

OMG, my heart sank when I read your update. I was soooo not expecting that! I am so so so sorry!!!! I can't even imagine the heartache you must be experiencing! You must be in a total fog. I wish there was something I could say to take away your pain but I know there isn't. Just know my thoughts are with you.

Lisa said...

Oh god Sue,

I don't even know what to say. I've devasted to read this news. You must be unable to beleive how this happened so fast when everything was going so well. You must be in shock. I can't even imagine what you must be feeling.

I'm beyond sorry.

Not Your Aunt Bea said...

My heart breaks for you. I am so, so sorry. You will be in prayers.

AdaRuts said...

Sue, I am so sorry for your loss and just wanted you to know that we are thinking about you.
- Amanda

Linda said...

OMG, my heart breaks for you and DH. Everything was going so well. I so did not expect to read this. I can't imagine what you and DH must be going through. It seems like "I'm sorry" isn't good enough to say to you. But I am so sorry.
:`(

DAVs said...

Oh my God. My heart breaks for you. This is not fair and I know there are simply no words that I can say that are even remotely adequate. Just know that I am thinking about you.

Larisa said...

I'm so, so sorry.

MissBish said...

Sue,
My heart breaks for you!!! You have been through so much. I know there are no words to ease your pain. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Polly Gamwich said...

Oh sweetie,

I am so so sorry for your loss. How incredibly devistating ... given how much you've been through. It's just not fair.

I'm so so sorry.

MamaSoon said...

Sue, I am speechless. I am... so sad for you. I am here to hear anything you want to share. My heart goes out to you and your hubby tonight.

g said...

OH NO DEAR i am soooooooo sorry this is happenening to you guys.. my heart breaks for you! IF just plain sux and i really wish we didnt have to go through all we go through! I will be keeping you in my thoughts.

GailY said...

I found you from Ashley's site. I'm so sorry for your loss and my thoughts are with you.

Shannon said...

I'm so sorry for your loss :( I had been reading your blog and was so sad to hear this. So sorry!

Phoebe said...

Words can not console at this time, but know that I am thinking of you and wishing you peace in your grief.

kayjay said...

You don't know me but I found your site through Ashley's blog. I'm so sorry for your loss and I know that there are no words to say that will make it better. Those of us who walk along side of you on this road called infertility are mourning with you. Hugs.

Lost in Space said...

I'm stopping by from Ashley's blog and just want to say how sorry I am. I cannot even begin to imagine what you are going through right now. Many, many hugs.

Kay Bailey said...

This is awful. I'm so, so sorry.

Anonymous said...

So sorry to hear this. I went through this earlier this year. It is heartbreaking.